by tiggymax 05.01.2011

Simple misunderstandings are the prime cause of relationships “going to the wall”. One moment all is well and the next minute your soul mate is heading for the door. If this has recently happened to you then the following tips will help get to get your ex begging you to take them back

1. Make sure that keep things in perspective by making a note of the reasons your ex walked out, speculate as much as you can and do some inner soul searching. Try to work out went wrong with your relationship so you know what needs to be fixed.

2. Go back to the very beginning of your partnership and write down the things that you can remember that caused the pair of you to be attracted to each other.

3. Take a look and see if there are some of the things you stopped doing while in this relationship. Check out some old friends and see if they can recall what you liked about your ex. Take some step to learn to like them once more.

4. Stay away from your ex for a minimum of 30 days. Even if you ex tries to apologize, politely inform them that you need some time to think things over and you will contact them in about 30 days time.

5. Keep your emotions in check the first several times the two of you speak after the initial 30 days is up. Try to pick up clues to how he is feeling about the situation by concentrating on what he says to you and by his body language. Does he lean into you while you are talking or does he look like he is about to bolt.

6. Take the first 30 days and get yourself on a health diet, get yourself to the gym and start look your best. You are doing this for you first but your ex will also see you in your “magnificent glory”. Before your first meeting go shopping and buy some new clothes. Make your ex drool.

7. Learn to be patient, with yourself and also your ex. The best things in life are worth waiting for — don’t rush things

8. When the dialogue starts, bear in mind that the pair of you may have things to get off your chests. Both of you should be able to clear the air and say what needs to be said so all the cards are laid face up on the table for both of you to see. Be brutally honest and straight with each other.

9. During the first meeting with your ex do not express any anger; mis-emotions will only make things worse. Light hearted banter is all that is needed. Do not make it a b****fest.

10. Explain to your ex that if you are to start over again then things need to move slowly and gentle at first and you don’t want to rush things. Ensure that what you are offering is forgiveness and do not use the previous partnership as a weapon in the new relationship.

These 10 tips to get your ex to beg you to take them back are just suggestions. Take these suggestions and tailor them to fit your specific situation and make them work for you to figure out how to get back your ex.

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