By John Simon 05 Sep, 2018

Dating never comes easy. With the awkwardness of the first meet, most people mess up their first chance, for some, it is the only chance.

So if you have landed an opportunity to take the girl you like on a date, you have landed at the correct place.

If you feel your palms getting sweaty or do not know what to talk about with a girl, then here are some ways to successfully end your first date and charm her:

• The interview: The first date is laden with questions, and that is obvious since you are getting to know each other. However, make sure that you do not come off as a reporter looking for answers to everything. The point is to get to know each other and not to play a round of rapid fire. Bring some light questions to the table, let her answer and offer her answers in return. Make it pleasant, not uncomfortable.
• Phone Etiquette:Although our phones have played an important part in bringing people together, they can also leave a horrible first impression. Try to keep your hands off your phone on the first date and give her all the attention. Avoid the various pings and keep your mind on one thing, and that’s her.
• Don’t be a boring bloke:Women love interesting things and are usually looking for something different that’d keep them interested as well. Going on and on about something you like may come off as a boring topic to her on the first date. Use your first date as an opportunity to take your relationship further and build a solid foundation. Talks are supposed to be fun; she should have fun with you.
• Personal Stories: Women love men who can laugh at themselves, and most men are born with this innate talent. Make her comfortable by telling her stories about your childhood and some from your college days that’ll make her laugh her heart out. With this, you will not only build a solid ground for conversation but also will give her a chance to speak about her stories.
• Keep it Light:No matter where you take her for a date, remember to keep your first date light and fun. Talk about hilarious stories, get to know her and help her to get to know you. Stave off the heavy talks for some other time or maybe later days. Don’t talk about a relationship and keep uncomfortable things out of the conversations.
• Keep a conversation:Avoid answering questions with direct answers. “No” and “yes” really kill a conversation. Run along with a conversation; try to add a funny one-liner here and there without overdoing it. Add different fragments of conversations to the initial train of conversation to not bore her.

And lastly, when you take a girl out, make sure that you are who you are. Originality and individuality with confidence is the best thing you can bring to the table to charm her.

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