What A Sincere Apology Looks Like
By Lorraine Mikaelson August 24, 2020
Apologies are very important in a relationship. This is the way for people to talk again after having a huge fight. We sometimes argue with my boyfriend and it’s inevitable that hurtful words are exchanged during this time. So when we both apologize to each other about our mistakes and the words we said but didn’t mean, it makes us feel comfortable again to go back to our normal lives like talking, joking around and flirting.
I realized that when we say sorry to our pairs, we show them our respect and empathy but if we don’t say sorry, our problems will just continue to grow into something bigger and it will be impossible to resolve it. This could cause the destruction of our relationship. We make it into a habit to ask for forgiveness if we have done something wrong. But how will you know if your pair apologized sincerely? Spotting it can be difficult but here are some characteristics of a sincere apology.
Their facial expression is the same with their words.
The look on their face says a lot when they apologize. They say that non-verbal communication shows many things that words can’t and one way to know a sincere apology is by their expression. Look at their face. I sometimes do this when my spouse is asking for my forgiveness. He usually writes a speech saying how sorry he is and that he is willing to take any consequences I give him. Before acknowledging him though, I look at him carefully and if I saw that his face shows that he regrets what he had done, I forgive him. Try it next time you have a fight with your lover.
The tone of their voice will be sad and their voice will be low.
This happens to my boyfriend very often. When he tries to say sorry for his mistake, usually he would lower his head and his voice will be low and sad, too. Every time he does this, I always know that his apologies are sincere because he is usually very cheerful and outgoing so his attitude when he apologizes is really opposite. There are also some things that he does when he is sincere and that is when he tries to talk to me after apologizing, his voice still sounds very sad as if he is still sorry for his mistake. Try to look for these elements and compare his behavior to his usual behavior.
They cry a lot when apologizing.
This may not apply to many people not because they are not sincere but because maybe they aren’t the type of people to cry easily. However, people who do cry easily are the ones that are regretful of their mistakes and they cry because they know it early. They can’t do anything about their mistake so they just cry while asking for your forgiveness and their emotions must have been so high that they are not able to control their emotions. Some people are easily overwhelmed by their feelings that even the slightest pressure would make them cry. Also, I have found this amazing article which could help you. You can read more about it here. https://spacecoastdaily.com/2020/08/the-pros-and-cons-of-digital-romance/
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Apologies are very important in a relationship. This is the way for people to talk again after having a huge fight. We sometimes argue with my boyfriend and it’s inevitable that hurtful words are exchanged during this time. So when we both apologize to each other about our mistakes and the words we said but didn’t mean, it makes us feel comfortable again to go back to our normal lives like talking, joking around and flirting. I realized that when we say sorry to our pairs, we show them our respect and empathy but if we don’t say sorry, our problems will just continue to grow into something bigger and it will be impossible to resolve it. This could cause the destruction of our relationship. We make it into a habit to ask for forgiveness if we have done something wrong. But how will you know if your pair apologized sincerely? Spotting it can be difficult but here are some characteristics of a sincere apology.
Their facial expression is the same with their words.
The look on their face says a lot when they apologize. They say that non-verbal communication shows many things that words can’t and one way to know a sincere apology is by their expression. Look at their face. I sometimes do this when my spouse is asking for my forgiveness. He usually writes a speech saying how sorry he is and that he is willing to take any consequences I give him. Before acknowledging him though, I look at him carefully and if I saw that his face shows that he regrets what he had done, I forgive him. Try it next time you have a fight with your lover.
The tone of their voice will be sad and their voice will be low.
This happens to my boyfriend very often. When he tries to say sorry for his mistake, usually he would lower his head and his voice will be low and sad, too. Every time he does this, I always know that his apologies are sincere because he is usually very cheerful and outgoing so his attitude when he apologizes is really opposite. There are also some things that he does when he is sincere and that is when he tries to talk to me after apologizing, his voice still sounds very sad as if he is still sorry for his mistake. Try to look for these elements and compare his behavior to his usual behavior.
They cry a lot when apologizing.
This may not apply to many people not because they are not sincere but because maybe they aren’t the type of people to cry easily. However, people who do cry easily are the ones that are regretful of their mistakes and they cry because they know it early. They can’t do anything about their mistake so they just cry while asking for your forgiveness and their emotions must have been so high that they are not able to control their emotions. Some people are easily overwhelmed by their feelings that even the slightest pressure would make them cry. Also, I have found this amazing article which could help you. You can read more about it here. https://spacecoastdaily.com/2020/08/the-pros-and-cons-of-digital-romance/
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